My husband seems to have another family
"Iam a born-again 31-year-old woman with two children.My husband and i had a traditional marriage ceremony in 1999 and in 2000,he won the Green Card lottery and went to US,leaving me with the kids in Kaloleni,Nairobi(kenya).At first he was very supportive and called me almost every day.but come 2001 after his father's funeral,he started sending less and less money and giving lame excuses.Then in 2004,he sent his younger sister to ask me to give her all his documents.I refused and he sent people to chase the kids and i out of the house and stopped communicating together.A few years,later he started to communicate but he doesnt send anything for the children's upkeep.They are now aged nine and 11,and i have raised them on my own for eight years as none of his family members care about us.Sometimes when i call him,he whispers on the phone and i hear the sound of kids playing next to him.When i asked about them he said they are his sister's children and they live with him.I have sent her e-mail massages many times,but she has never responded.I want to move on,but something keeps holding me back.Please help me"
Give your suggestion and Advice to the lady's sad experience and she will appreciate your views as she says she wants to move on with life but something holds her back.